Do You Know Your "True Self"?
The "Happily Ever After" Myth
Do You Know Your True Self?
Are You Living Your Purpose?
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Who are you really?
Do you see yourself as having a certain identity?
Because of your past experiences, it may be as someone the opposite sex doesn’t find attractive or even someone others don’t like.
It can make you feel imprisoned.
And you might think you’re not the type of person who can do certain things... and as a result may shy away from opportunities which come your way.
However, if you’re like the majority of people, your self-identity isn’t accurate.
Let me explain...
Since you were a child, you’ve been constantly bombarded by messages in the media, movies, and TV, and pressure from your peer group, which have made you feel like you need to be a certain way in order to fit in and be accepted.
Because of this, you’ve more than likely grown up feeling fragmented and out of touch with who you truly are at your core.
In this second video of a 4-part series, I’m going to reveal how you can integrate your self-identity in what’s called the "Freedom of Self."
Once you have freedom of self, you'll feel comfortable in your own skin.
You'll be able to be who you want to be.
And you’ll be able to effortlessly attract a great partner and people into your life.
Watch this video now.
Best,
David Tian Ph.D.
P.S. Being your true self is the first step in attaining true happiness and success in your life. It lays the foundation for "Freedom of Purpose" and "Freedom of Love," both of which I’ll cover soon.
Watch this video now to discover more.
QUESTION: "Have you or anyone you know ever experienced living as their True Self? If so, what was it like?"
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Obviously there are many parts to our selves. How do we truly know what is our True self ?
Obviously there are many parts to our selves. How do we know what is our True Self?
I think I’ve never experienced my real true self, I tried to be more charismatic, fun, careless of others toxic opinions, and risk taking. And because of that I met a beautiful and wonderful partner that I trully love. But as soon I got to the realationship I came back to the more quiet, introverted guy. I mean I have no problems being like that but I am “Insecure as fuck”, And I always wondered if there is going to be a point I will feel total and completley free with myself. I also had traumas :/ which I’m trying to remove them with meditation. Thanks for this video David, it got me thinking, and it was very relateble.
This is more pervasive then many realise. I saw some comments and they read can Disney.
Every movie is a fantasy. Many of the best love stories were written by people that created a fantasy because they sucked at women.
Songs that you go too believing that it represents your idea of love was written by a drug user that destroys hotels.
Hallmark writers are at times sheltered shy people that never had a long term relationship.
The ideas and fantasies you buy in tell you more about your neurosis then you think.
Thank you David
That damn Disney! Perpetuating such a myth to small children and making them think life is just like a fairytale. Unfortunately it isn’t.
Yeah, so many cartoons have this story built in. I can take some but not almost all of them.
Realizing that I actually have to work for it was one of the best things that happened to me. The moment I realized I am responsible for my life was the moment I become a man.
Realizing that no one is coming to the rescue was also a big turning point for me. I used to rely so much on my friends and family and was not progressing with anything in my life. But not anymore.
Don’t you love those struggles that are the catalyst you actually need?
And what about those futile struggles that some people around us are involved in? It seems that some people never learn and just repeat the same mistakes over and over again.
Yeah, those are the moments when you feel like you’re in a battle and there’s no way out: you have to win!
I think so many people see obstacles as bad things and that’s why they fail. Obstacles are just there to make you stronger, to make you face some fear you might have.
I wouldn’t have it any other way! Life without obstacles is just so boring! Everything something hits me I ask myself “what will this teach me?” or “what lesson do I have to learn here?”
In one short video you’ve made me HATE my job! Boy, do I hate it.
And what are you going to do about it?
I don’t want to get old and regret the things I haven’t done. I’ve seen this in the eyes of my grandfather that died a few days ago. It gave me goosebumps as I stood there, in front of a dying man that was telling me he regretted not quitting his job to do what he loved, not having the courage to follow his true love to Norway and not enjoying NOW instead of thinking about the future or the past. He made me promise I would always follow my heart and live without regrets!
WOW! That gave me huge goosebumps! It’s time to honor that promise you made and follow your dreams! David can surely help us all do that.
Those 3 freedoms are so important! Ever since you shared them a few days ago I’ve done some research and got to know more about each of them. Will keep a lookout for your course to learn even more.
Each one is important in its own right but I think the freedom of self is really important. For me, it is crucial.
I can totally relate to Paul. I am successful in my field of work but I can’t say the same for meeting women because I suck at that.
I used to be just like you until I took a course from David. It changed my life! I now feel so much more confident, I know what I want and how to get it.
How do you active your true self? Now there’s a topic for video 3…
I want to know this! I wonder if he’ll talk about it in video 3.
I have a friend that seems to be so happy. He works in advertising and he’s always smiling and always telling me about something new he’s learned and how he can’t wait to go to work and learn new things. How does he do it?
Life is filled with struggles and I think all of them make you stronger and wiser.
I feel so separated from my true self… Now even more than ever and I hope you can help me.
I just have to say David that I have been following your work for a while now and it has helped me grow not only as a man, but a human being. I am looking forward to the next video already my friend. You are a brilliant man and I am thankful for people like you who share your natural gifts with the world. You are helping people like me understand ourselves better and on a more intimate and real level. THANK YOU!
My brother has always been happy and I could never understand why. It wasn’t until I watched this video that it clicked… Who he is when he wakes up in the morning is who he is when he goes to sleep at night. He is who he is at work, with family, around his kids and wife… He never changes for anyone and I think that is the biggest flaw in humanity right now and why so many of us aren’t happy. We don’t know who we are one minute to the next.
I really want to change and be happy. I always feel like I have walls up around people no matter if it is a man, woman, friend, family, date or anything. I seem to just shell up and shut my true self down. My sister once told me that I was using it like a defense mechanism. Everything is making more sense thanks to your videos, David. I am so glad I found this.
My husband was a player for years. I almost didn’t marry him because of it. I didn’t know if I could ever really trust him deep down. I think he was able to come to what you speak about here David. He was able to be his true self with me and it helped him get passed that part of his life.
I am one of those guys who acts completely different around my family, my friends, and women. I thought this was normal and everyone was like this but I am beginning to see how this is a lie and we are all lying to ourselves. We should be true to who we are regardless of who is around us.
My ex-wife wasn’t her true self for the 7 years we were together. We were married 4 of those years and it wasn’t until our 6th year today that she started expressing how unhappy she was and she couldn’t figure out why. I realized that I didn’t love who she was becoming but it wasn’t fair to her because she was reverting back to who she really was. We split on good terms but I can’t imagine going through that. Losing who you are.
I thought I was being myself for years and I only realized I wasn’t me when my brother moved back from out of the country. He told me that I changed and asked me who I was. I was taken back by it. I watched the first video and I feel like this message was meant for me. I am trying to get back to who I truly am and this is helping a lot. Thank you David.
My sister actually sent this to me. I am blown away! You know how to talk to people and you understand them more than they understand themselves. I believed in the happily ever after all my life and it ruined relationships for me. Now I understand why. What and eye opener!
I wouldn’t know if i was. I remember there was a part in Practical Psychology mentioning the true self, but its not sufficient personally to declare something.
Considering this series and new program, i am wondering if this will be even more powerful than Invincible.
Seems like all these courses are becoming more powerful than just dating and self improvement advice; this is literally a liberation movement! Maybe this is just the thing men need to truly “break that limit”.
Yes, Nicholas Slater, Freedom U will definitely be more powerful than Invincible 😉 Invincible was half focused on converting pick up guys to understanding their deeper psychology.
Part 4 of the “Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living” was a very good start to understanding the True Self. But this course will feature live coaching to guide you to discovering it in yourself.
Fantastic work again David! I watched the first video and I knew this series was for me. I have had so many issues within myself that showed big time in my relationships. I have been divorced 2 times and have all but given up on love. My hope has been restored. Can’t wait for the next video!
I found that I was able to better myself when I accepted my struggles and overcame them. I feel like these days, people push away all struggles, even the ones that are healthy for our growth as human beings. I know I have a long way to go but once I realized this, I was so much happier.
I don’t think life is a struggle. I think it’s something that is worth cherishing and living the max because, with good or bad, it will end some day.
I think I’ve had glimpses into my true self and it’s amazing! But I have no idea how to get to that point whenever I want to.
When are you launching this course, David?
Is anyone else excited about this course? I’m going crazy here :))
Everything sound amazing, thanks for this awesome insight making deep philosophy cool. I know it is not the main matter here but where exactly is that wonderful location
Amazing! Didn’t expect a follow up video so soon. Keep them coming!
i always thought the hardest part was getting a relationship. BOY i was wrong, there’s so much more to it. Thanks for the content David.
“We are not evolved for happines”. damn that’s deep. but true. truth hurts.
“In order to win something you’ve never had, you must do something you’ve never done”. Happiness doesn’t just come by without putting the effort. KEEP ‘EM COMING!
Sometimes in life some obstacles may seem like a dead end, but always keep pushing forward because as you said, it will lead to something greater.
My biggest fear in life is me in the death bed thinking what would happen if things were differently.
Really interesting topic, David. Really interesting points about the futile and catalystic struggles.
Sorrounding yourself with people who bring you happinnes is one of the important decisions of life.
I wish there was a class in high school or even elemenatary that would teach about these psycological events such as true self and the three freedoms.
wow, your breakdown of true self is amazing! it’s so true that most people aren’t true selves but more likely they’re adapting to the surroundings
Amazing content Davind, the music, the speech, the surroundings. Quality content, keep em coming!
I could hear you talk about the self integration and the personas we create about ourselves all day.
These first two videos have been amazing! I’m really pumped for this course.
“We don’t wanna just survive, we wanna thrive”. This is the type of mentality that champions are built of.
Incredible story with Paul, i would love to hear some more of the stories from the people you’ve helped.
Great and useful video David!
There was time when I thought that I’m experiencing my true self, but then I realized that it was not my true self…So I’m not sure what would be experiencing my true self, the freedom of self.
But fortunatelly we got this fine team to help us, thank you!
Eye opening Amazing Videos David! I can’t say I have reach or experienced my true self yet but I’m working on it & Thanks to your videos & actually doing these. does it feel good. Thank you!
– When you say freedom of self, and living as your true self, does this refer to satori, or some “watered down” version?
For a few days I became suddenly “godstruck” and experienced satori. My thoughts, fears and ambitions vanished, and I felt completely whole, blissful and a very deep, inexplicable reverence for all life.
No doubt the most important experience of my life so far. What I wouldn’t give to have it back…
In hindsight I see how it has changed so many things about me. For example, my lifelong interest for natural sciences was converted into passion for therapy and human potential. Really boggles my mind to consider it all…
Very intriguing, No I have not met mine or anyone elses that I know of but now I’m thinking it’s time I’ve met mine. Thanks can’t wait for the next video.
I would love to live the freedom of true self, purpose and love. Very difficult in this new chapter but I am ready to give it a shot. Will look at the next video soon.
Your program interests me. I used to be well off. Got married. After a few yrs. we went to the dog track had a few drinks because we were doing pretty good in money, had a fight there. We went home and I got on my motorcycle and went out some more. Almost got in a fight but I just left. I got ran into and I hit the medium. The Docs. were telling my wife and parents I wouldn’t get out of bed! I went trough much rehab and I’m acceptable! I lift weights, do Zumba and work at the Mota Center(where the Trail Blazers,Winter hawks and they have top of the line concerts. I was doing pretty good before the accident but I’m not living like I would like. I’m single and I don’t like it,HELP.
Can’t waitto implemwnt this into my life. Drugs destroyed me and its about time I picked myself back up i think.